hey you guys .. i'm back..
i been
meaning to get something off my chest for a while now ..
note : what ur reading
might offend you,
might make you pull ur hair out ..
might make you hate me but hey, if my fren, then u'll understand me right? =)
WARNING : STRONG ISSUE COMING UP!i find premarital sex ..
unacceptable ..
i might have argued this topic several times in
my previous blog and i might have argued and debated a little at jcnet .. but to me, u cannot change my opinion about premarital sex.
note: this mostly apply to girls lar...imagine a typical scenario in today's society.. where the young gen sleeps around.. now picture this ..
a 16 year old girl , brought up by good parents.. got pregnant.. the guy left
the consequence : -
a ) shame to parents and family b ) own future destroyed foreverpossible action : -
a) abortion b ) throw away babyconsequence : -
abortion = murder ??murder = killing / taking another's life. u might think .. "so jaz, what difference does it make if ur married?"
imagine this ..
25 year old woman pregnant, married ..
i believe
husband + wife = marriage --> familywouldn't it feel nice .. to know that ur having a baby, u have ur husband there, supporting and loving you, ur family also happy for you..
instead of getting laid and abort / kill a life?
oh sure, there's adoption..
but how many girls actually did that? O.o
note : i'm not saying
ALL guy would ditch a girl when she's pregnant ..
but why take the risk ?
" oh , we love each other so that's why we did it "
bullshit! i dun believe in that shit !
u love her ? u love him?hold hands.
cuddle.
hug.
smile.
there's a lot u can do
without taking off ur clothes!
oh, some even said " well , married de also still can divorced ma! "
divorce is an
unforseen circumstances. u thought it
might last. but it din.
however ,
this ain't the same with dating relationship..
oh , some might say " aiya jaz, u never been in relationship ma, how u know?"
simple :- no matter what,
i never wanna hurt my parents .
that's
my principle ,
my top priority.
how can i do this to my parents after they had
raised me with all the hopes and dreams and moral values and i turn out to be a disgrace to them??
how how how ? it will be like =
failing them as a dutiful daughter.
when i was younger, my mom used to tell me
" cross ur legs, sex is not for you until you're married"do u really think u can live knowing u never gave
THESE baby a chance to live??
if any of you terasa or anything , i can't do anything right?
possibility of me changing my mind ?
0 %
think before you fcuk..
Labels: emotion, family
